Monday, December 29, 2014

Christmas Village Christmas


Neuschwanstein Castle


The day Chris accepted his job in France, our friends Trynke and Arne invited us to spend Christmas at their house in Germany.  Actually, I'm pretty sure Tynke had started planning this Christmas since I told her Chris was applying for the job in France.  And then the day Mart got his job in Switzerland, Trynke's Christmas offer was immediately extended to Mart and Ann as well.  Needless to say, Christmas in Germany had been on the radar for a long time; so when the time actually came to pack our bags for this trip we were all giddy with excitement.

Lilah enjoying some German Pastries
When Lilah was first born and would nurse/sleep on me all day long, I got really into The Amazing Race.  The season I happened to watch had an episode where they went to Bavaria to the 'original Disney castle'.  I have wanted to see this castle in person ever since.  I'm not a huge Disney fan, but it just seemed like such an iconic place to see.  Trynke and Arne live a few hours away from the castle, so we decided to all meet there for a couple days before heading to their house in Regensburg. We stayed in a very quaint hotel/bed and breakfast in Fussen, the kind where you grab beers out of their fridge and just tell them how many you had the next morning.

Bavaria


King Ludwig II built Sleeping Beauty's castle, and after learning about him during the tours of Neuschwanstein (the Sleeping Beauty castle), and Hohenschwangau (the equally exquisite castle his father built that he lived in while his castle was being built), I think he'd be pretty proud of this accomplishment.  The castle was just as beautiful in person as they made it on TV, and I was happy to bring my own little princess to see it.

Neuschwanstein Castle up close
Family shot with Neuschwanstein Castle
Ann, Mart, Chris, Lilah, me, Arne, Tynke, Melle in front of Hohenschwangau Castle 

After a few days in southern Germany, we headed to Trynke and Arne's house.  They live in a little village outside of Regensburg where the main attractions include horse stables and one restaurant, a pork-house where you can eat pig anything out of a trough (I'm both bummed and relieved we didn't eat there).  We spent a very cozy week at their place filled with cooking, baking, board games, walks around their neighborhood, and German beer.  We ventured into Regensburg a few times to visit the Christmas Markets, which were exactly what you think a Bavarian Christmas market should look like - little chalets set up selling food, crafts, mulled wine, pottery, etc.  In the main food/drinks area there was a tiny carousel set up for the kids which kept Lilah and Melle busy allowing the rest of us to enjoy an awesome lunch of cedar-plank salmon, potatoes, brats, and spaetzle.


Regensburg, Germany
Lilah at the horse stables
Cute toddlers in the tub. And blackmail.
Inside the cutest Christmas Market in Regensburg
Melle and Lilah riding the carousel
Wood-fired salmon.  It was as delicious as it looks.
We had a fun-filled Christmas morning opening presents in pjs, eating cinnamon rolls (a Wheeler family tradition), and sitting by the fire.

Lilah and Chris trimming the tree
Lilah, Melle, Mart, Ann, Huxley, and the train
Melle loved helping Lilah open her presents
Our cute little rascal
PS. Shout-out to Ann, Mart, Trynke and Arne for some of these awesome photos!






Thursday, November 27, 2014

Friendsgiving in France

We have a lot to be Thankful for this year - living abroad as a family is an amazing experience, both getting to know life in France, and also having access to travel to new places often and easily.  Even so, it's of course hard to be so far away from our family and friends back home, especially during the holidays.  I feel really lucky that I have made some close friends in Versailles who have kids Lilah's age.  Jess and Nancy make me laugh a lot, are excellent sounding boards for all of Lilah's ailments and cheerleaders for her excitements, and have awesome kids who are Lilah's best friends.  I don't know what I'd do without them, seriously.  Since we're all American (well, the Moms are - Chris is the only American Dad), we decided to celebrate Thanksgiving all together.  It was as delicious as it was fun, and almost (almost) made me forget I wasn't with my family.

Happy Thanksgiving!  Nancy and Jess, I'm very Thankful for you!

Nancy, Fred & Thomas; Stephen, Jessica & Arielle; Kimmy, Chris & Lilah
The Bird.  Fresh from the farm.
The guys carving the turkey
The spread

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Melted Cheese. And a visit with Ann & Mart.

While Chris traveled to Portland, Oregon for a conference, Lilah and I traveled to Zurich, Switzerland to spend some time with our friends Ann & Mart (and their dog Huxley).  Last time Chris went to the US for a conference, Lilah came down with some virus, so although I figured there was no way she would get sick again, I really didn't want to chance being alone with a sick baby for another week.  Well, I was proven wrong that she wouldn't get sick again, and right that I should have left town.  Thank goodness for my wonderful friends who kept me sane, cooked for me, and cleaned up after a very sick baby girl for 2 days.  

Luckily we had some fun before Lilah got sick!  We toured all over Zurich, which is a beautiful town on a lake, with views of the Alps.  We ate so much melted cheese (in the forms of fondue and raclette), along with lots of amazing chocolate.  Lilah and Huxley developed a friendship that consists of Lilah feeding Huxley treats, throwing him a ball, eating out of his kong, and playing in his water bowl (hmm...maybe this is how she got sick...).

Me, Ann, and Zurich
Mart and Ann

Lilah and Huxley, friends forever.

Fondue. Why eat anything else, ever?


Friday, November 21, 2014

First break

There are many attributes I would love to pass on to my daughter; however my clumsy self with easily breakable bones is certainly not one of them.  I hope for Lilah (and for all of us), that this first broken bone is also the last, and not a blip on the long line of times we go to the emergency room.

Lilah fractured her left wrist while we were in Paris taking some family photos.  She was walking around a park picking up chestnuts that had fallen on the ground and carrying them with her.  She fell while holding a chestnut and must have broken her fall awkwardly because of the nut.  She cried a little more than normal for a typical fall, but was consoled within a few minutes. Her wrist never bruised, swelled, or showed any physical signs that there was a problem.  We only knew it was hurt because she wouldn't bear weight on her hand, so we took her in for an x-ray.  The x-ray showed a Torus Fracture, which is pretty common in toddlers.  Their bones are very malleable, so instead of actually breaking, they bow out slightly.
The fracture is the little piece of bone that bows out on the inner part of the bigger bone in her wrist (yes, that is the medical definition).
Close up
Little L and her little cast.  She was a really good sport for the most part.
Of course she still had a few meltdowns.
The cast came off after 20 days, and she went straight into the tub.  Bathing a toddler with a plastic bag on one arm is not easy!  We were both pretty happy to get her back in the tub where she could splash around.


Friday, October 31, 2014

Happy Halloween!

Fairy Lilah
Happy Halloween from Lilah the Fairy!  Halloween isn't a big holiday here in France, which was not surprising, but still a bummer for me since I love Halloween so much.  Luckily we have expat friends, so we were able to get into the Halloween spirit! 

Fairy Lilah and her best pals Chicken Arielle and Dracula Thomas
Spider cookies!
Pumpkin carving with Dada
The only jack-o-lanterns in Versailles





Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Provence With Gramma and Grampa Wheeler

Detail of Arc de Triomphe in Orange
It had been ~5 months since they last saw Lilah, too long. I'm sure they missed us too but they weren't as vocal about that. We have obviously been keeping in touch with them on Facetime/Skype, and Kimmy regularly uploads pictures to a Lilah-centric photofeed that fills her iPhone with gigs of lil'L jpegs; but it was time they saw their granddaughter again In The Flesh. Andy and Nancy were coming to France. They arrived in Paris and moved into a little Bed and Breakfast they had learned about through word of mouth. We picked them up the next day at their doorstep and took them on a wander through Paris. We took them to the Musee d'Orsay (which lasted as long as Lilah would allow) and Montmartre. It turns out that Montmartre is becoming our place to take tourists. You might remember from a previous post that our Parisian friend took us there when we were Paris-newbies. And since taking my parents we've also taken another set of tourist-friends. I suppose it has the perfect mix of famous landmarks, tiny streets, art, and food.

Grampa Andy always comments on the pictures of Lilah enjoying our knotty wood floors, now he got to join her (in her favorite chore/game, unpacking and packing containers).
Pont du Gard aqueduct. 
After a taste of Paris we all got on a series of trains, much to the culture shock of Mom and Dad, and headed to Avignon in the Provence region of France. Mom had clipped an article about the region from a newspaper long ago and had been eager to visit all the roman ruins found there. The article advertised it (Orange, Nimes, Marseille) as the Rome of France. And that proved true, as the first ruin we saw was the highest of all Roman aqueduct bridges, Pont du Gard. I wasn't so much impressed by its record-breaking height (160 feet), but more by the fact that over its entire length it only descends 2.5 cm. Pretty impressive for something that was built in the 1st century AD. Afterwards we had just enough time to look at the outside of a Roman colosseum in Nimes (Arenes de Nimes) before checking-in to our AirBnB in the small town of Chateaurenard. It was a beautiful old farmhouse with artistic tile-floors, murals, and Asian-inspired furniture.

Early walking skills made this tough terrain to walk on for Lilah.
Mom wishing the weather was just a little bit warmer so that we could partake in the cliff jumping below. Lilah, in the distance, finally gets a chance to walk/fall.
We packed in too much for one day and didn't have time to go inside the Arenas de Nimes. Luckily there was another amphitheater on the agenda.
The neighboring hills are dotted with small provincial towns. Exploring these and getting a country-France feel was our goal for the next couple of days. One of these small towns, Roussillon, was known for Ocher cliffs, and lavender. Well... most towns in the area were known for lavender actually, it is kind of Provence's "thing". Every souvenir shop was inundated with it, Kimmy and I couldn't resist and even got a lavender ice cream. It was a beautiful purple and was delicious at first, then it just tasted like soap. Besides the ice cream though, most everything we ate in Provence was delicious. I developed the opinion that the food in southern France is generally much better than that around Paris. That conclusion of course excludes all the expensive Michelin-starred Parisian restaurants I have not yet saved up for.
Chocolate & Lavender with a hill-top town.
Kimmy sat alone on a perch overlooking the ocher cliffs and tentatively licked her lavender ice cream, as me and my parents wandered a nearby cemetery. Kimmy declined the offer to join with a shiver. As we wandered down the aisles, inspecting years and statues and taking pictures, I realized that this activity may be unique to my family. I feel like we have always visited cemeteries, even ones not associated with our departed relatives; I first learned to drive in a cemetery, and Lilah and I had sought shelter from the rain in the awning of a mausoleum just a week prior to this trip with my parents. I really like cemeteries, and am desensitized to them, to the point where I don't necessarily think about the dead when I'm there, they're just a park.


Purple, red, yellow, and white cliffs of Le Sentier des Ocres

Exploring the world and living life hand in hand.


Dad wandering the back-roads roads of Gordes
After the red hue bias of the Roussillon, the white of Gordes was shocking
Imagine lavender flowering all along those parrallel lines. Well, just do yourself a favor and Google Image= Abbaye Notre-Dame de Senanque
We had already stuck our heads inside some opulent churches, so this monasteries' large chapel was very simple in comparison.
Dad picking up the culture of the typical French male. After so much walking around he had to wet his whistle from time to time.
On another day we drove to Orange, but followed the back-roads to get a better feel for the countryside. Between our BnB and Orange is a vast wine-growing region that includes the famous Cote-de-Rhone. We were excited about wine tasting, and wanted to come across a winery sign on our drive with the right... Je ne sais quoi.  When we found it, we pulled over for a taste.  It was around lunchtime though, which in France means 'closed time', but my naive demeanor convinced the owner of Domaine La Coste Du Puy to open his doors. Intuition served us well, as it was our ideal wine tasting atmosphere. We usually like the experience and wine more at wineries where you meet the wine producers and are able to casually converse with them while tasting and learning about their wine. In this case we tasted at a counter built into the winery office. The wife typed away at invoices on the computer while the husband poured. We went through the whole list, and even doubled back to make sure. Kimmy wowed both Mom and me with her proficiency in French. At first I was a little bit ashamed that I knew so much less French than her, then I got over my ego and just tried to keep up. One thing I'm learning about wine here in France, is they do not identify their wines (or cheeses) by the grape varietals that they are composed of, but by the geography of origin and production. It is a concept called, "terroir" which categorizes the emergent sum of geography, geology, climate, plant/animal genetics. And I think it works better for the Old World than the New World because the former stick to more rigid recipes. All Cote-de-Rhone wines taste like a cote-de-rhone, they might have a different personality but their baseline is the same. I don't think you can say the same for a Napa Valley wine. For a Napa Valley wine you'd have to identify it first by varietal and then name-drop Napa.

Eventually we made our way up to Orange, home of two very famous Roman ruins, the Theatre antique d'Orange, and the Arc de Triumphe de Orange. The Roman theater is a big deal, "they" say it is the most impressive one still existing in Europe. It was built around the same time as Pont du Gard (early 1st century) and was a major part of the daily life of citizens. I don't remember all the details of the audio-guided tour, but it seemed like there were performances here most, if not every day, that were all free to the citizens. And when you went to the theater, you knew your social class, and sat in your peers' section. The theater was not an "event" that they would go to now and then, but more like the mall of the stereotypical teenager. Unfortunately, when Christianity became the official religion, the theater was closed, and then sacked and pillaged as the Roman Empire declined. One more interesting fact, I have always incorrectly thought, as did everyone I know, that a "vomitorium" was a special room where Romans purposefully threw-up their food and drink so that they could return to the party and continue to consume. But actually it is just a passageway behind the seats of a amphitheater/stadium through which crowds could rapidly exit.

Mom at the Theatre Antique d'Orange
Imagine watching a show with this view
Mom outside the main gate to Le village des Bories. A town of mortarless huts built sometime before the 1800s 
We finished up our southern tour with a shop through the famous outside market of L'Isle-sur-la-Sorgue. The market was situated in the old part of the town, which existed on a small river island. All the streets were filled with stands selling food, clothes, antiques, and stuff. It was a wonderful people watching opportunity. Dad snapped pictures of French shoppers, Mom sampled the local delicacies, and Lilah weaved through the crowds with all of us in tow. But then it was farewell...for now. Mom and Dad headed out to Barcelona for a couple of nights. Afterwards they returned and moved into our apartment for a quiet night of food and family.


Lilah show-boating

A giant stone ear in the river of L'Isle-sur-la-Sorgue. Ancient roman ruin? Post-modern street art? I don't know!
Grandma and Granpa are gone... now what.